Miss Violet 800-601-6975
The Letter
Dear Miss Violet,
I have been considering going into long term chastity. What is it like? Will I have a difficult time with it? Do you ever let your chastity submissives have a release?
Longing to be Locked
My Answer
This is a topic I have written about in my main blog over the years. Chastity training is one of my favorite fetishes. Chastity of all lengths. I consider orgasm denial to be a form of chastity. This time, instead of me answering your question, I asked my long term chastity submissive simeon to do the honors. Here is what he wrote in regard to your questions:
I’m simeon and I have been Mistress Violet’s chastity slave for a year. It has been very challenging and rewarding to turn over such an important part of my life to her. Here are some of the highlights.
The First Day is the Hardest
For some reason, chastity is harder the day after you come than it is after 3 weeks or even months of denial. Self pleasure becomes a bad habit that is really hard to break. After about a week I don’t have the constant physical desire. But around day 20 my mind starts to take over and things get interesting.
Craigslist Fun!
The Chastity eventually makes me feel so submissive that I place adds on CL to dominant men, swapping pictures, flirting and occasionally meeting up. I once called Ms Violet after I had a change of heart and ran out on a man from his bed that I had met during my chastity fever . She was understanding but amused and told me to stay away from all things sexual for awhile. For now on, my CL ads are confined to offers of women to clean houses, yards and cars. It fulfills my desire to serve.
The Best Part
When in chastity, I feel so close to Ms Violet and she is on my mind constantly. And in chastity she really works that magic on me that I can’t explain. She is very kind and truly takes care of me. But she is the toughest chastity mistress of all. Once you discuss how long, there is no hope of early release.
Mishaps
I have had some real challenges with mental chastity. Just 20 days in I came trying to fluff up for a picture (don’t ask). A few times I was awake late at night and I thought that I would just edge….. and then there was the time that I came in my sleep after 65 days of chastity. Mistress Violet has been more patient with me than I deserve and I have learned something new with each episode.
What I Learned
What started out as just a fetish turned out to be way more. I found out that I truly need a strong, compassionate woman to serve. I have the best one in Ms Violet. We are now tying my chastity to the cycles of the moon and I look forward to another year as her devoted chastity slave.
In Conclusion
Thank you, simeon, for sharing your personal chastity experience here. Your chastity FemDom thanks you. There is nothing quite like hearing the reality from a guy living it. I have a feeling that as you read this posting, more questions will arise. Please…ask them here. Give me the chance to answer your questions and inform others at the same time.
In my experience, many guys ponder going into chastity for years before they actually try it. It is my intention that reading the reality of one chastity submissive’s chastity will spur you on to trying it now. Why wait?
Miss Violet 800-601-6975
